![]() Nikole’s two best friends are Courtney, a Korean woman who owns her own cupcake bakery, and Dana, an actor. They spirit her away, and give her a lift back into the city, dropping her with her friends who have assembled to support her in her moment of need. Stricken, Nik is saved by a brother and sister, Carlos and Angela, who recognise she might not be the bad guy here. Nikole’s boyfriend (ex?!) storms away leaving her to face the disappointed crowd. ![]() But for Nik, the horror of the moment is immediate and total. Don’t get me wrong - for some people cameras and screens are a dream proposal, and I’m not going to yuk your yum, although you’d hope your prospective fiancé would at least spell your name right. When Fisher, Nikole’s boyfriend of just a few months, proposes to her on-screen at a baseball game, the boundaries are not just crossed, but smashed to little pieces. ![]() ![]() The Proposal starts with a scene that perfectly illustrates what happens when someone does not respect those boundaries. All of these are perfectly fine, as long as those we know well understand our preferences and respect our boundaries. On a scale of 1-10, how comfortable are you with public scrutiny? Do you love to be centre of attention, happy to bask in the view of anyone who happens to be around? Or are you a more private person, preferring that your emotions and experiences are kept for a small select audience? Perhaps you’re somewhere in the middle. ![]()
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